Romance

I figured out what it is that  I feel is missing - it's the romance, the excitement, the fun stuff.

I remember when we were going out the relationship was different as it should be and I don't always want to live in that sort of world, I need the stability of what we have but  I feel now that I am just part of the furniture that Aa is used to me being here and he doesn't feel the need to make any special effort to do anything. He recently bought me some really nice underwear and  I loved it. It felt like for the first time in ages he was actually doing something fun for us, maybe it's because of that, that I want more now. The other side of this is I feel that he doesn't need me for much beyond the practical day to day stuff. of running our lives and some sex. He seems to be getting more emotionally closed, more withdrawn. Less emotionally invested in a relationship.

That's just how I feel, I could be misreading him but a lot has happened recently and it is affecting how I respond to things but there is still the feeling that something is missing, a spark that is no longer there and  I don't know how to get it back.