Sunday, June 1, 2014

arghhhhhh Stress

6 weeks until I'm due and that is fine.

What is sooooooooo far from fine is my husbands ability to do any of the things that need to be done before this baby is born.

Request 1 "Please can you sort out a skylight for the spare room " Response "ok" That was 7 weeks ago and that is about as far as we have got. Follow up " You are working from home on Thursday, why don't you get some people over to give us a quote" Response "I can't do that, I'm working and I have to leave early to go to the race" Internal fuming, he can take YET ANOTHER race but oh no, can't do something that WE actually need to do.

Request 2 "We need to get a bigger car. When should we go and look for one / sort out the finances?" Response " don't know" "not sure" "we'll do it at some point" Internal fuming, does he realise that I will not be leaving the house to go much further than the park this summer if we do not have a car I can fit all 4 kids in. That I do not want to be shlepping 4 kids by myself on and off buses just after I have given birth. Does he understand what it is to be stuck at home with all the kids who are getting fed up and want to go out? Does he get it that after I give birth I might not have as much energy as normal? Does he get it that I can't do everything by myself all the time?

I love him very much but it is really stressing me out not having these things sorted out and when I keep asking him about it he just gets cross with me for nagging.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Wish he would actually do something about it NOW

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